There’s nothing quite like a good cigar to elevate an occasion—and what better excuse for a gathering than to throw a cigar-themed party? Whether you’re celebrating a birthday, milestone, or just want to gather your cigar-loving friends for a memorable evening, a cigar party is sure to leave everyone feeling relaxed and impressed. But if you're going to do it, do it right. Here are seven must-try tips for throwing the perfect cigar-themed party, packed with plenty of class and a little touch of humor.
1. The Perfect Venue: Where to Host Your Stogie Soiree
First things first: pick the right venue. Are you picturing an intimate backyard gathering with tiki torches and cozy outdoor seating? Perhaps your cabin on the lake is the perfect setting, where guests can puff away while enjoying the view. For the more sophisticated crowd, consider renting a professional space that allows indoor smoking—yes, they do exist, but they might come with a price tag. The key is to make sure your guests can comfortably smoke without the neighbors mistaking your party for a brush fire. Keep the ventilation in mind, and wherever you choose, set up areas for lounging and conversation.
2. Personalized Cigar Selection: Because Not Everyone Loves the Same Stick
No two cigar lovers are alike, and that’s the beauty of it. When curating your cigar selection, think about the guest of honor first—what do they love? A robust Maduro or a mild Connecticut? But don’t stop there. Provide a range of options for your guests to enjoy based on their preferences. Some may be seasoned aficionados who appreciate a strong, full-bodied smoke, while others might just be trying cigars for the first time. A little variety ensures everyone feels catered to, even if they're just there to look cool while holding a cigar. Bonus points if you print out a menu of the available cigars with tasting notes. It’s a cigar party, not a guessing game.
3. Decor and Accessories: Set the Scene (and Maybe Throw in a Chalkboard)
Now, let’s talk aesthetics. The decor sets the mood for the evening, and a cigar-themed party gives you plenty of creative license. Lean into the luxury with cigar-themed decorations—perhaps a 1920s vibe with art deco elements and jazz music playing softly in the background. Or keep it simple with a rustic look: think vintage ashtrays, leather chairs, and a well-placed humidor. Don’t forget the practical accessories like matches, cutters, and ashtrays at every turn. For an extra touch, create a cigar-themed cake or offer appetizers that follow the theme. And, of course, a chalkboard showcasing the cigars and drinks at the cigar bar—because we all love knowing what we’re about to smoke or sip.
4. Theme Ideas: It’s Not Just About the Cigars, It’s the Vibe
Choosing a specific theme can take your cigar party from great to unforgettable. You could go for a classic “Cigar and Whiskey” pairing, offering a variety of whiskeys that complement your cigar selection. If you want to class it up, try “Cigar and Cognac”—a refined pairing that’ll make your guests feel like they’re in a scene from The Great Gatsby. For something truly memorable, consider a 1920s speakeasy theme. Encourage your guests to dress the part, and you’ll have an evening filled with old-fashioned charm, even if you’re just hanging out in someone’s garage.
5. Guest List: Keep It Chill (Or Don’t)
Your guest list is crucial to the vibe of the party. Is this going to be a tight-knit group of cigar buddies, or are you inviting a wider circle of friends and family? Either approach works, but make sure the crowd is on board with the cigar theme. You don’t want someone showing up, glaring at the haze, and muttering about their allergies. Decide if plus-ones are allowed, and be mindful of the size of your venue. A cigar party is meant to be a laid-back, enjoyable experience, so keep the guest list manageable. Too many people, and your backyard might start to resemble the smoke-filled poker room at a bachelor party—not always a great look.
6. Cigar Bar: The Heart of the Party
Ah, the cigar bar—the pièce de résistance. This is where your guests can browse, select, and light up with style. A Pinterest board called Cigar Party Ideas by Refined Traditions offers a treasure trove of cigar bar setups to inspire your party. From a rustic wooden bar with leather accents to sleek, modern setups with glass displays, the options are endless. Offer an array of cigars organized by strength and flavor profile, alongside carefully chosen spirits. Whiskey, rum, and cognac are classic pairings, but feel free to get creative. Make sure your setup is user-friendly—your guests should be able to pour a drink and grab a cigar without needing a degree in mixology or cigar band reading.
7. Food & Drinks: Don’t Let the Stogies Steal the Show
You don’t want to forget about the food. Cigars and spirits can pack a punch, so it's wise to offer some sustenance. You don’t need to go full dinner mode unless you really want to, but a nice selection of appetizers and desserts is always a hit. Think savory options like sliders, cheese platters, or tapas-style snacks that pair well with cigars and drinks. A cigar-themed cake could be a fun addition to the menu, or you could stick with more traditional desserts like chocolate truffles, which also complement cigars nicely. Whether you’re going with catered hors d'oeuvres or making it yourself, keep it simple yet satisfying—just enough to keep your guests comfortably full while they enjoy their cigars and drinks.
Conclusion: Every Cigar Party is Unique
There’s no one-size-fits-all approach to throwing the perfect cigar-themed party. It all depends on the guest of honor, the kind of gathering you envision, and—let’s be honest—your budget. Whether you’re going for a grand affair with a professional cigar sommelier or a relaxed backyard get-together, the key is to keep it fun, classy, and laid-back. After all, cigars are meant to be savored, just like a good party.
FAQs
How to make a cigar bar for a party?
Start by selecting a variety of cigars based on your guests' preferences, from mild to full-bodied. Organize the cigars with labels or a chalkboard that includes tasting notes. Set out cutters, lighters, and ashtrays, and pair the cigars with a selection of complementary drinks—whiskey, rum, or cognac are always popular. Decorate the bar to match your theme, whether it’s rustic, elegant, or something in between.
What to wear to a cigar party?
It depends on the theme! For a casual backyard party, think smart-casual—something comfortable but stylish. If it’s a more upscale event or themed (like a 1920s speakeasy), you might want to go a bit more formal, like a blazer or cocktail dress. But always make sure it’s something breathable—you’ll be in a smoky environment.
What to serve at a cigar party?
Offer a variety of finger foods or appetizers that pair well with cigars, such as sliders, cheese platters, and charcuterie boards. Desserts like chocolate truffles and a cigar-themed cake are also great choices. If your guests are drinking, make sure there are enough snacks to balance the alcohol and cigars.
What foods pair well with cigars?
Rich, savory foods like grilled meats, cheeses, and dark chocolate pair wonderfully with cigars. For lighter options, nuts, olives, and dried fruits are also excellent complements. Aim for foods with strong, bold flavors that won’t be overpowered by the cigar smoke.
What is a cigar party called?
A cigar party is often referred to as a “herf.” It’s a casual gathering where cigar enthusiasts come together to smoke, chat, and enjoy good company. Of course, you can just call it a cigar party if you prefer!
